Make Your Best Impression Blog · June 24, 2009
If you asked someone if they would rather succeed or fail, they would say they wanted to succeed. Who wouldn’t? But, success involves more than just wishing it was so.
What defines the road to success? – Obviously, you try to make decisions that will lead to the completion of your goal. That seems to always be easier said than done. Somewhere along the line, obstacles seem to find us and then the goal doesn’t look as straightforward as you once thought.
One reason goals go from dream to reality is your focus. Think of taking a picture. In order for you to see everything you have to adjust your focus so the picture is clear.
Achieving your goals is a matter of keeping the picture clear. That is where your mental focus comes into play. Your goal stays in focus when it is in the forefront of your mind.
Total focus is the way to accomplish a goal but what that means for you depends on the goal. Here’s an example. Let’s say that you want to lose weight. At some time in their lives, most people do.
So, you have a plan to accomplish this weight loss goal. Your plan might include exercise and eating better. In order to be successful, the goal has to stay forefront in your mind. Every time you eat, a conscious decision has to be made that reflects your goal. Do you eat a hamburger with everything or have a chicken breast with vegetables?
Focus is not obsessing. Some would say that if you thought about the goal morning, noon and night, that’s going overboard. Here’s the difference. Obsession says that no matter what you eat you won’t lose weight. It gets you on the scale five times a day.
Focus follows a plan. Eating is not the enemy, but eating the wrong amount of food. You can’t stop eating right? Instead, you’ll change your eating habits and exercise to shed extra weight. When you hit a plateau, it’s time to change the routine to something new.
Focus moves forward always towards the goal you have set. In a reasonable amount of time, you will achieve the goal. When you are focused, there is always a new path to try when you hit a roadblock. You can still see the goal (maybe pictures or affirmations posted around the house) so you don’t give up.
Success with your goals is not a matter of luck but of looking towards the end result. Achieving a goal is not always easy but the hard work will pay off if you stay focused.
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